Monday, February 1, 2010

Discovering Wedding Tradition: Part Two


Its a nice day for a white wedding!

This week I would like to tell you about the white wedding dress. Prior to the Victorian era, a bride was married in her best dress, in any color except black or red. For centuries brides have dressed to reflect their social status; brides were not only reflecting themselves, but also their families and sometimes their country.

The white wedding dress became the fashion following the marriage of Queen Victoria, who wore an all-white gown.

Although this is the tradition in western culture, brides in other countries sometimes wear red, or some other type of traditional garment.

The wedding veil was worn for modesty since the 16th century, but veils had been used in the West for weddings long before this. Roman brides wore a veil to protect themselves from evil on their wedding day.

What is a dress and a veil with out a bouquet? Wedding flowers symbolize fertility and everlasting love. In the past brides carried nosegays with garlic, herbs, and grains to keep away evil spirits. Carrying ivy means faithfulness, Lilies of the Valley mean purity, and, of course, roses mean true love.

Dress by Vera Wang.

Monday, January 25, 2010

The Wedding Workshop | February 21, 2010


The Wedding Workshop: Affordable Elegance for the Modern Bride
Sunday, February 21, 2010
at the Sarasota Garden Club
stop by from 3:00p ~ 6:00p


The choices are endless and even the most organized bride has a dozen decisions to make at any given minute, and many are wondering how to keep the costs down. The Wedding Workshop: Affordable Elegance for the Modern Bride is a free, practical workshop designed for brides-to-be wanting to learn more.

The workshop features experts from a variety of traditional wedding service providers who will offer tips and advice on planning an elegant Sarasota wedding, while staying on budget.

There will be mini-makeup consultations, models showing off the newest trends in dresses and wedding style, hors d'oeuvres, wedding cake, 5-minute massages, and other demonstrations to get couples prepared for the big day. This is a truly interactive event, and anyone is welcome to attend. There is even a section of the show dedicated to the grooms!

Gifts will be raffled off to brides who attend.

For more information about The Wedding Workshop, email info@SarasotaWeddingCompany.com.

Monday, January 18, 2010

Discovering Wedding Tradition: Part One


Something old, something new,
Something borrowed, something blue,
And silver sixpence in your shoe.

You have probably heard this a million times, but do you know why you wear these special items on your wedding day?

Something old symbolizes traditional values taken on by the bride and handed down from someone who is respected and married.

Something new usually is a shiny new penny, for good luck or good fortune. Alternatively, any item purchased to be worn on your wedding day (such as your dress, shoes, etc.) could be your something new.

Something borrowed symbolizes sharing in the happiness of an acquaintance who you admire.

Something blue, because blue symbolizes constancy. A common blue item is the blue garter.

Some brides try to incorporate all the "somethings" into one item. Such as blue earrings loaned to you by your grandmother. The earrings are old, but new to you!

It is considered good luck for a bride to carry all of these "somethings" on her wedding day.

I found this beautiful garter set on Etsy. One to keep, one to throw, and a handkerchief for the bride makes this a perfect set for all occasions and the most sophisticated brides. Get yours here.

Monday, August 17, 2009

Répondez S'il Vous Plaît!


A reply to attend or not to attend a wedding or party is always appreciated. It is good etiquette and good manners.

Once upon a time in a land not so far away, response cards didn't exist. When a guest received an invitation, the polite way to reply was with a hand-written note. Unfortunately, frustrated hosts were making numerous follow-up phone calls to forgetful, or inconsiderate, guests. All this frustration resulted in the invention of the response card! However, in these technological times we live in, some hosts will opt to accept RSVPs via email; and believe it or not some hosts still abide by that time honored tradition of not including response cards with the invitation.

So, if you receive an invitation with no response card or an email address to respond to, here is the correct way to write your formal RSVP.

Always mirror the original layout and formality of the invitation. Hand write, or type in the case of an email, the response and refer to yourself in the third person. Abbreviations are never used. Everything should always spelled out in full, even the date.

Mrs. Ashley Lynn Houghton
accepts with pleasure
the kind invitation of
Mr. and Mrs. Michael Raymond Bradley
for Saturday, the first of May

*or*

Mrs. Ashley Lynn Houghton
regrets that she is unable to accept
the kind invitation of
Mr. and Mrs. Michael Raymond Bradley
for Saturday, the First of May


My last bit of advice? RSVP, ASAP! It is considered bad etiquette to leave your response to the last minute.

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

No More Cold Feet!


Looking for the perfect gift for your fiancé? These super cute socks will warm his chilly feet on your wedding day.

"These are a MUST for your soon to be hubby on the big day!"

You can purchase the socks in black or brown here.

Monday, August 10, 2009

Destination Weddings Within Your Reach.


Ahhh, the sugary, white sand of the beach. Do you wish you could get married on powdery sand with the Florida sunset as your backdrop? Well, you can because its totally affordable! Sarasota Wedding Company now offers Destination Wedding Packages with the budget bride in mind!

The first package we have to offer is Sugar Sands. Everything is included from the ceremony, to hotel stay for the bride and groom. A 3-course dinner reception for you and 10 guests is included also.

The cost for this package is $3000, all tax and gratuity included!

Click here for more information, or call 941-374-2060.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Wedding Invitations Decoded!


Shopping for invitations? Do invitation websites make you feel like you're reading stereo instructions? I am here to help!

Engraving & Thermography:

Engraving is a very formal printing style for invitations. The copy is pressed into the back of the invitation, causing the wording to be slightly raised from the paper and an indentation on the back. Thermography is a less expensive alternative to engraving. It is a process that causes the ink to be raised off the page similar to engraving.

Embossing & Debossing

This one is easy. When a motif or initials are pushed up from the invitation, that is called embossing. When a motif or initials are pressed into the invitations, its called debossing. There is no ink or foil used in either, so they both would be used for decoration.

Something else have you stumped? Send me an email!

These beautiful taupe and sky blue invitations are thermographed with your words under a taupe ribbon. $292 for 100. Available from Sarasota Wedding Company.